If you’re having trouble telling what could be a sign your partner is about to break up with you, then read on for some insightful cues on what to look out for.
1. There’s a growing distance between you
People usually tend to distance themselves if they’re unhappy, feel doubtful, or are uncomfortable. It’s best to let your partner bridge the gap on their own. But it could also spell the end of your relationship and is a sign your partner wants to break up.
2. They stop doing things for you
A relationship is a give and take. It’s an unspoken commitment to put in effort and do things for each other. If you’ve noticed that your partner has stopped putting in effort to make you happy, then it’s one of many break-up signs in a relationship
3. They make up excuses
A sign your boyfriend wants to break up is if he starts making up excuses for why he can’t meet up with you. These excuses start out small, but slowly it starts to get more common, and you realize that he’s making up fake excuses.
People only make up excuses if they are no longer interested. If you realize that he’s actively avoiding being with you without communicating honestly or genuinely, then it is a sign that he wants to end the relationship.
4. They don’t like making future plans with you
A sign that she wants to end the relationship is if she gets hesitant about making any plans with you about your future, especially if they were excited about it in the beginning of the relationship. A sudden change in their views about the future could be among the signs a breakup is near.
5. They find fault in everything you do
Nothing you do for them (or even in your own life) is correct, according to your partner. They are constantly admonishing you, putting you down, or insulting your ability to do things right. This could be one of the signs of breaking up.
6. They stop responding to your texts
You can’t help but notice that they take a long time to reply or call you back.
If they are usually on their phone, texting other people, or posting on social media, but continue to ignore your texts and calls, it’s a sign of a breakup that will come soon enough.
7. They talk about breaking up repeatedly
You might notice that your partner keeps bringing up the subject of ending the relationship. If a minor inconvenience occurs, they immediately try to break up with you.
They’re just looking for attention and not a stable relationship, and this could be a sign someone is going to break up with you.
8. The sexual flame has burned out
Sex is an important part of a healthy relationship because it helps one meet their psychological needs within a marriage or partnership.
If you realize that your partner is getting reluctant to get in bed with you or no longer enjoys the things she once did, it could mean she wants to end the relationship and no longer feels invested in it.
9. Your partner is unhappy
If you’ve noticed that your partner no longer laughs as much as they used to or no longer likes doing the things they once enjoyed, it could be because they are unhappy in the relationship. Depressed people are more likely to end their relationships than other people.
10. They are being too formal around you
The casual intimacy and comfort level that was once a part of your relationship no longer exists. You’ve realized that your partner gets uncomfortable around you and no longer acts the way they used to. When casual, informal behavior goes out the window, so does the relationship.
